1. Temple Office Hours
2. Schedule of Worship Services for October
3. October Events
4. Happy November Birthday
5. Happy November Anniversary
6. November Yahrzeit
7. Schedule of Worship Services for November
8. November Events
9. Youth News
10. 1st Friday Dinners Schedule
11. Tot Shabbat Schedule
12. Women of Ohav News
13. Special Notices
14. TOS Employment Stimulus Package
15. Temple Directory Information
** We are looking for folks to collect and donate yarn, beads, Judaic material and magazines for various arts and crafts projects at our School. Please bring in items and address them to Elaine Bergstrom’s attention. THANKS!!**
1. Temple Office Hours
Monday - 10:00 am to 4:00 pm
Tuesday - 10:00 am to 4:00 pm
Wednesday - 10:00 am to 4:00 pm
Thursday - OFFICE CLOSED
Friday - 10:00 am to 4:00 pm
Weds, Oct 28th 7:30pm Melton Adult Mini Class
Thurs, Oct 29th 7:00pm Preschool Back to School Night
4. Happy November Birthday
3 Amanda Boehmke
Jason Piechowicz
6 Jared Cohen
7 Natalie Stahl
9 Julia Solomon
10 Max Fleischer
16 Benjamin Pasternak
17 Chloe Geller
Daniel Lebovitz
18 Benjamin Pizov
19 Jillian Siegal
20 Tyler Skirble
Sara Weiss
23 Shane Mitnick
Andrew Roth
26 Casey Ferrara
28 Abigail Savitz
Lane Trust
29 Phil Krassenstein
30 Alison Karsh
Caleb Karsh
5. Happy November Anniversary
2 Todd and Susan Hertzberg
Doug and Deb Taylor
3 Mike and Tara Ginsburg
Alan and Pam Peisakoff
4 Ed and Marcie Fassler
5 Domenic and Daryl Jean Marks
6 Richard and Leslie Snow
Brad and Amy Trust
15 Scott and Marcella Pollock
29 Luke and Corri Parrinello
6. November Yahrzeit
May Their Memories
Be For A Blessing
November 2 / Heshvan 15
Paul Begler
Father of Arnold Begler
November 4 / Heshvan 17
Claryne Leatrice Karsh
Mother of Ken & Ralph Karsh
November 6 / Heshvan 19
Anita Parrinello
Mother of Luke Parrinello
November 7 / Heshvan 20
Joel Greenberg
Brother of Linda Greenberg
November 8 / Hersvan 21
John Sample
Father of John R. Sample
November 9 / Heshvan 22
Marilyn Elefant
Mother of Karen Borden
November 10 / Heshvan 23
Irvin Moschinsky
Brother of Gerri Greenberg
November 15 / Heshvan 28
Bernard Sanders
Father of Mark Heims Sanders
November 18 / Kislev 1
Rose Kaufman
Mother of Herb Kaufman
7. Schedule of Worship Services for November
Parashat Vayera
Friday, November 6 --- 19 Heshvan, 5770
6:00pm Dinner for All
7:00pm First Friday Family Service
Rabbi Donsky & Nikki Avershal
Saturday, November 7 --- 20 Heshvan, 5770
10:00am Shabbat Morning Service
Bat Mitzvah of Allison Shepard
Rabbi Donsky & Nikki Avershal
Parashat Chayei Sarah
Friday, November 13 --- 26 Heshvan, 5770
6:15pm Tot Shabbat
7:30pm Kabbalat Shabbat
Rabbi Donsky & Nikki Avershal
Saturday, November 14 --- 27 Heshvan, 5770
10:00am Shabbat Morning Service
Rabbi Donsky & Nikki Avershal
Parashat Toldot
Friday, November 20 ---3 Kislev, 5770
7:30pm Kabbalat Shabbat
Rabbi Donksy & Gerri Greenberg
Saturday, November 21 --- 4 Kislev, 5770
10:00am Shabbat Morning Service
Rabbi Donsky
Parashat Vayetzei
Friday, November 27 --- 10 Kislev, 5770
7:30pm Kabbalat Shabbat
Bill Lowenberger
Saturday, November 28 --- 11 Kislev, 5770
10:00am Shabbat Morning Service
Rabbi Donsky
8. November Events
Sun, Nov 1st 1-4:00pm Mah Jongg
Tues, Nov 3rd No Religious School
Weds, Nov 4th 7:00pm Melton Adult Mini Class
Fri, Nov 6th 6:00pm Dinner for All
Sat, Nov 7th 10:00am Bat Mitzvah of Allison Shepard
Sun, Nov 8th No Religious School-In Service Teacher Faculty Day
Set Up the Book Fair/Sale Starts Mon, Nov 9th
Weds, Nov 11th 7:00pm Melton Adult Mini Class
Fri, Nov 13th 6:15pm Tot Shabbat
Mon, Nov 16th 7:30pm Board Meeting
Tues, Nov 17th 5:30pm WOS Board
Weds, Nov 18th 7:30pm Melton Adult Mini Class
Fri & Sat 20&21 NA Away Fall Kallah
Tues, Nov 24th No Religious School
Thurs, Nov 26 Thanksgivng Day
Preschool Break through Mon, Nov 30th
Sun, Nov 29th No Religious School
9. Youth News
Calling all singers 3rd-8th grade!!!
If you haven’t heard we are re-instating Ohav Shalom’s Youth Chorus KOL YAFEH
Interested students should join us for rehearsals from 12-1 pm every other Sunday after Religious School.
Parents please mark these rehearsal dates on your calendar:
October 25th
November 15th
December 13th
January 10th
January 24th
February 28th
March 14th
March 28th
April 11th
April 25th
NFTY – PAR’S FALL KALLAH is November 20th-22nd. 9th – 12th Graders can register now at http://www.nfty.org
Any Questions? Email/ Call Nikki @ , 412 369 0900 x 14
10. Schedule of 1st Fridays Shabbat Dinners
aka
“Dinners for All”
(All dinners begin at 6:00 PM unless otherwise noted.)
(The entire congregation is welcome at all of these dinners!)
1) November 6 Grade 5
2) December 4 Grade 4
3) December 18 Hanukkah Celebration
4) January 8* Grade 3
5) February 5 Grade 2
6) March 5 Grade 1
7) April 9* Kindergarten
8) May 7 Grades 9, 10, 11, & 12
• scheduled on second Friday due holiday
11. Tot Shabbat Schedule
(Special Worship Service begins at 6:15 PM)
(Dinner follows immediately – approximately 6:45 PM)
1) November 13th
2) December 18th *
3) January 22nd
4) February 19th
5) March 19th
6) April 16th
*Hanukkah Celebration for all families
12. Women of Ohav News
Women of Ohav Shalom…
Do you love watching football?
Or do you just love noshing on the food?
Either way, please join us for the
Women of Ohav Shalom Paid Up
Members Lunch Tailgating Party
Join us in cheering on the Steelers
Sunday, November 22,12:30pm
at Beth Mongilio’s home, 117 Field Brook Lane,
Gibsonia, PA 15044
Please RSVP by November 15 to Beth Mongilio
724-443-3566 or
November 10 from 5:30-7:30pm
Please join Patty and WOS members for conversation and recipe sharing. This months theme is Thanksgiving. Please join us for a nosh and good conversation. The Book Fair will also be open. We hope to see you there and everyone including husbands are welcome.
13. Special Notices
On Sunday, November 8th, our own Rabbi Donsky will be participating in “Pittsburgh Faith in Action Against the Death Penalty”, an Interfaith Initiative at the Pittsburgh Theological Seminary. The Rabbi will be on a panel of clergy and faith leaders in our area to discuss how our faiths speak to and about the death penalty.
TOS SKI / SNOWBOARD CLUB
The TOS Ski/Snowboard Club is here again! This is a great way to enjoy the company of temple members and get a great deal on lift tickets, lessons, and rentals at Hidden Valley Ski Resort. Here are the details:
• Sessions are on Sundays after Religious school. (12pm – 10pm) Just drive to HV. Dates are 1/10/10, 1/24/10, 1/31/10, 2/7/10, 2/21/10, 2/28/10
• All costs cover the 5 sessions – that works out to $19 per lift ticket! (Regular price is $42 adults/ $32 kids)
• Costs are: Lift Tickets -$95; Ski Rental - $65 Board rental - $85 Lessons - $70 (Adults and kids are the same price; minimum age of 7). Lift tickets are mandatory, others are optional.
• First step is sign up… We need 15 people minimum to make it happen, signed up by November 30. You do not have to be a temple member to ski. Sign up here:
http://spreadsheets.google.com/viewform?formkey=dE0ydDQ0bUtlV0Q1cE5mNndLVkRhQ3c6MA
Questions? Contact Dave Silberstein: at ; or 412-877-1104
Also, there is program for 4th and 5th graders where they can get some free lift tickets. Go to: http://www.skipa.com
See you on the slopes!
SPORTS ITEMS NEEDED
I will become a Bar-Mitzvah on April 17, 2010.
For my Bar-Mitzvah project I am collecting sports items (hats, T-shirts, terrible towels, magazines, etc.) for a platoon of soldiers in Iraq who are from Pennsylvania and are big sports fans. They especially like the Steelers, Eagles, and Penguins.
If you would be kind enough to donate any of these items there will be a collection bin in the temple, upstairs near the school entrance until November 22nd. If it is more convenient I can arrange to have items picked up.
Thank You for your support.
Jake Vries
724-272-2527
TEMPLE BOOK FAIR
Get your new release of Diary of a Wimpy Kid, DOG DAYS, at the ANNUAL TOS Book Fair
The book fair will be held during preschool hours from November 9th through the 20th, and on Tuesdays of religious school the 10th and 17th, Sundays during religious school 15th and 22nd. Proceeds will benefit both the Temple and pre-school.
Volunteers are needed for set-up, take down, and as cashiers during hours of operation, Anyone interested in helping, please contact Kathy Dougherty at 412-487-8191 or by email at
GOLDMAN UNION CAMP INSTITUTE – FOR THE TIME OF YOUR LIFE
Entering 3rd through 10th grade children from synagogues across the Midwest are currently being enrolled for the coming summer program at our regional U.R.J. camp, The Goldman Union Camp Institute. DON’T LET YOUR CHILD MISS THIS CHANCE TO JOIN IN THE FUN AND FRIENSHIP OF G.U.C.I. A four week session (a two week session is offered for entering 3rd and 4th graders) at Goldman Camp is a unique experience. Campers participate in a full range of sports, arts and Jewish programs, all offered within the exciting and motivating atmosphere of a Refom Jewish community of young people. There is simply no other experience like it.
Scholarship and incentive grants are now available.
Find out more about this wonderful opportunity for your child by picking up a 2010 Goldman Camp Brochure from the Temple office or call the camp directly @ 317-873-3361. You can e-mail the camp at .
There will be a Mah-Jongg on Sunday, November 1st from 1:00 to 4:00 pm.
14. TOS Employment Stimulus Package
Temple Member Moira Singer is sharing information regarding the following job opportunity:
Property Manager for Franklin West, Inc. responsible for managing two adjacent complexes in Oakmont. This full time position comes with benefits and would be perfect for a sales and marketing professional with a PA Real Estate Sales License. Contact temple member Moira Singer at for more information and a copy of the job posting.
CompuWiz has a need for 2 full time employees: IT Specialist and IT Sales. Visit http://www.monster.com to find the job listings and details for both positions or call Eve at 412-847-0650 for more information.
If you would like to place a listing, send an e-mail to Laura Flieder at or call 724-449-2779.
15. Temple Directory Information
We are getting close to finalizing the new directory. Please respond quickly to update your current information including an accurate e-mail address.
If you are interested in placing an ad in the directory, please contact Amy Covell at . Prices range from $50 to $800. Don’t miss the opportunity. Time is running out.
Dear Members,
Over the next few months, Amy Covell and I will be working to create a new Temple Directory.
Attached to the e-weekly is a TOS Directory Information Form. Please fill it out and return it to either Ruth or Jessica in the office.
Please list the names of all of the family members residing in your house.
For children, please list their birth year only as we will not print exact birth dates in the new directory.
Please list only one e-mail address and one phone number. This will not have any effect on any additional e-mail addresses you have listed for receiving the e-weekly.
We are also asking Temple members first, if they would like to place an ad in the Temple directory. Amy has the size and rate information. Due to current budgetary restrictions, we are looking to have the ads pay for the cost of the directory. If we are unable to cover costs, we will have to sell the directories at a nominal cost. Wouldn’t you like your family or your business to be the one we can thank for having a new directory at no cost?
If we do not receive a form for you by October 15th, we will use the information we currently have in our database.
CHILD NAME:__________________________________________________YEAR OF BIRTH:_________________
CHILD NAME:__________________________________________________YEAR OF BIRTH:_________________
CHILD NAME:__________________________________________________YEAR OF BIRTH:_________________
CHILD NAME:__________________________________________________YEAR OF BIRTH:_________________
HOME ADDRESS:___________________________________________________________________________
CITY:________________________________________ STATE:________________ ZIP CODE:_____________
TOS Membership Directory Ad information
AAdvertising space is limited. This will be done on a first-come, first-served basis and isavailable in the prices shown below:
Back Cover $800
Inside Covers $600
Opposite Directory $500
Full Page $300
Half Page $150
Quarter Page $75
Business Card Size $50 Interested? Contact Amy Covell by e-mail at or 724-772-8117.
Preschool at TOS Wins Best Preschool in the ‘Burgh!
According to the readers of Parents Connect, and GoCityKids, the Preschool at Temple Ohav Shalom has been voted #1 preschool in Pittsburgh! See the glowing reviews here!
It’s that time of year again! Sunday School begins this Sunday, September 13, at 9:30 AM, and Hebrew School commences Tuesday, Sept. 15 at 5:30 PM. Note that this is a NEW time for Sunday School this year.
The Florence Melton Adult Mini-School is coming to Temple Ohav Shalom!!! Yes, Finally!!!!!
Melton is a two year adult education program devised by a team of scholars and educators at the Hebrew University of Jerusalem. It provides the opportunity for adults to achieve basic Jewish literacy in two years. Learners are introduced to a broad spectrum of Jewish knowledge through an integrated, sequential course of study in a pluralistic and non denominational approach.
1st year classes:
- Purposes of Jewish Living- Essential Jewish concepts and ideas as they unfold in the bible and other sacred texts.
- Rhythms of Jewish Living- Central ideas which mold the traditional patterns of life cycles, holidays and practices which define and shape a Jewish life.
Tuition:
- Ohav Members: $350 for 30 classes (partially subsidized by Ohav Shalom)
- Non members: $525
A $125 deposit is necessary to reserve your spot. The remainder can be paid throughout the year.
Class begins Sept. 23rd
To register, Click here to print the Registration Form and send to TOS, or contact Amy Karp at 412.521.1101 or l.
We all know, too well, of the difficult economic situation facing our country and our own community. Our congregation, like thousands around the country, is facing a financial short-fall that will affect our ability to offer the many needed services that we have come to expect in the past.
Recently, I offered a challenge to the Executive Board and then to the Board that I want to share with you and encourage those of you, who are able to do so, to take up this challenge.
I plan to donate a portion of my scheduled cost-of-living increase, $2,500, back to the temple. I challenge 10 individuals, families, or groups of individuals and families to match my tzedekah. While the $27,500 this challenge can raise won’t completely fix our current cash-flow and budget difficulties, I do believe that it will certainly help. I am a ready to do my part!
In addition, I am very grateful to the hard work and long, long hours that our president, Ralph Karsh, and our treasurer, Martin Greenberg, along with the rest of the Executive Board and Board, have dedicated to our congregation during the past 10 months to guide us on a path toward fiscal solvency. Yasher koach! (Way to go!)
I urge you to please participate in this unique challenge today; as we say after we finish reading one of the books of Torah – hazak, hazak, v’nit’hazek – be strong, be strong and together we shall be strengthened. Please contact or to let them at what level you will participate; remember no amount is too small and by contributing together we can meet this challenge.
This past Sunday, two member of our Lifelong Learning faculty, Deb Cohen, our Kindergarten (Gan Yeladim) teacher, and our Marci Barnes, Lifelong Learning Director, were honored by the Agency for Jewish Learning in two separate but important communal programs.
Deb was recognized as one of the greater Pittsburgh Jewish community’s “Unsung Heroes” for her tremendous dedication to our youngest religious school students. Each Sunday during the school year, Deb has offered a welcoming and warm classroom for these students as they continue their Jewish education after attending our pre-school. Simply, Deb is a magician in the classroom because if you see her students at the beginning of the year and then watch them come the Spring you will be amazed about how confidant and comfortable they already feel about their connection of Judaism and our community. Thank you Deb for all you do for our temple family and for the Jewish people each Sunday!
Also, last Sunday, Marci Barnes, was honored by the AJL for her efforts to enhance our programming for our Special Needs students. Marci with the help of our faculty members, especially Cathy Filson, and dedicated parents, has worked during this past year to ensure that all of students have an opportunity to experience a quality Jewish education. Thank you, Marci for these efforts. And thank you for all that you began to accomplish this past year. Sadly, because of our difficult financial situation, Marci, as you already have learned, will not be with us next year. We will miss you and I know, that I speak for our congregation in wishing you only the best in the coming year.
And this week we will also say thank you to Elliot Frank who has served our community as Executive Director for the past year and a half. Elliot has worn many hats around the temple – treasurer, construction manager, administrator/executive director – and we are grateful for his dedication to the temple. And we wish him well in his future endeavors.
We like many, many small and medium size congregations around the country are facing very real financial difficulties because of the current state of our nation’s economy and our past deficit budgets. Our president, Ralph Karsh, and members of the temple’s executive board, are currently preparing a detailed letter explaining our particular situation. This letter will be forthcoming soon, and I urge you to join us for a Congregational Meeting on Sunday, June 28th at 9:30 AM as we seek to move forward in the coming months towards a more secure fiscal future.
TOS eWeekly
Volume 3 Issue 33, May 13th 2009
(For the text on this weeks Torah portion, go to http://urj.org/torah/ )
From the Rabbi
Sometimes you meet a person for the first time and you click and a great connection blossoms and grows wonderfully. I can say with great joy that during the last two years that I, along with many of you, have been privileged to enjoy such a musical and spiritual connection with our student Cantor, Tifani Katof, who we will be honoring this coming Friday, May 15th at our 7:30 PM Kabbalat Shabbat service. Her childhood rabbi, Mark Mahler, from Temple Emanuel of the South Hills, will be joining us to celebrate Tifani so please make this Friday night, temple night for your family.
From the moment that Shara Taylor, Elaine Rose and I first interviewed Tifani more than two years ago, at the Student Cantor auditions our at reform movement’s School of Sacred Music on the New York campus of Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion, I knew that she would be a great addition to our temple family. Tifani has served us with great dedication and enthusiasm, while at the same time; she has stretched and enhanced our understanding of Jewish music. Her warm and soaring voice inspired us whether she was praying the majestic melodies of the High Holy Day liturgy, chanting niggunim (wordless melodies) during a 1st Friday service or leading our youngest worshippers in her or their favorite Tot Shabbat tunes.
Those of us who attended her special workshops on the history and development of Jewish music not only gained a great deal of information about our tradition’s sacred music, we also witnessed the ongoing development of a future Jewish leader. One very lucky congregation will be blessed in a year from now when Tifani is invested as a Cantor. (She recently received her Master of Arts in Sacred Music and next year in addition to investiture she will also receive a Masters of Arts in Jewish Education).
The Psalmist reminds us, “Shiru La’donai shir chadash,” “Sing a new song to the Holy One”. Tifani has certainly fulfilled this charge teaching us new music while infusing the rest of our melodies with her “new and youthful” spirit.
Please join me in wishing Tifani blessing in all her “comings and goings” in her years ahead serving our people.
B’shalom,
Rabbi Art Donsky
PS Our last Tot Shabbat of the school year will take place at 6:15 PM followed by our Pizza Dinner, so if you have little ones this would be a great time to join us and say thanks Tifani for her service to our community.
MAZEL TOV!
We welcome to our community, Jackson Mac Mason, son of Rebecca and Bob Mason who was born Monday evening, May 11th, 2009. Mom and baby, and dad are doing well. The Bris is 6:30PM Monday, May 18th in the sanctuary.
LAST TOT SHABBAT OF THE YEAR!
This Friday, May 15th at 6:15PM. Please be sure to RSVP to Elliot at or call if you will be attending.
GOOD & WELFARE
More Mazel Tov’s!
Marci Barnes, our Lifelong Learning Director, will be honored Sunday, June 7th by the Agency for Jewish Learning Special Education Services Department. Rabbi Bradley Artson, Dean of the Ziegler School of Rabbinic Studies at American Jewish University will be the guest speaker at the JCC in Squirrel Hill from 11:00Am-Noon.
Our own Deb Cohen will also be honored that day by the AJL at 10:00AM! She is one of 18 Jewish Educators from all across our community who are being honored as Unsung Heroes. Sixteen institutions have chosen these talented and devoted individuals for recognition as their 2009 Jewish Educator of the Year. These educators will be individually recognized at a special ceremony that is open to the community at the AJL’s annual meeting, which will take place from 10 - 11 am at the Squirrel Hill JCC.
If you wish to attend, please RSVP to or call 412.521.11901, x. 3206
MEMBERSHIP LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES-2 MORE SESSIONS
The Rabbi is offering a series of classes called TOS 201 – What do Jews Believe?
The two remaining classes will be held on Tuesdays, 19, and 26. Lunch-n-Learn will take place at 12 noon (bring a bag lunch) and evening classes at 7 PM. Classes are free to members and prospective members.
Tuesday, May 19th – What do Jews Believe about the After Life?
Tuesday, May 26th – What do Jews Believe about being a ‘Good’ Jew?
Come to one or all three and bring your questions. Handouts will be provided. Please RSVP to Laura Flieder at or 724-449-2779.
GIFT SHOP
Now that Sunday school is over for the year, the gift shop is on a summer schedule. We will be glad to meet you any time. Please call either Elaine Cohen 412-364-8484 or Andi Turkheimer 412-367-7864 so set an appointment. We have many items that will make beautiful engagement and wedding gifts, Bar and Bat Mitzvah tallit and gifts, and lovely Judaica items. Please visit us first. There is no need to go to Squirrel Hill.
UPCOMING EVENTS
Tuesday, May 12th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about God?) TOS 201
Friday, May 15th 7:30PM Shabbat honoring Tifani Katof Guest Rabbi: Rabbi Mark Mahler
Tuesday, May 19th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about the After Life?) TOS 201
Friday May 15th 6:15 Tot Shabbat
Thursday, May 21st Last Day of Pre-School!
Tuesday, May 26th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about being a ‘Good’ Jew?) TOS 201
Friday, July 3rd All American Pre-Shabbat Barbeque
Friday, August 28th Shabbat In The Park
SCHEDULE OF WORSHIP SERVICES FOR MAY
Parashat Behar – Behukotai
Friday, May 15 21 lyar, 5769
6:15 pm Tot Shabbat
7:30 pm Kabbalat Shabbat
Rabbi Mark Mahler – Honoring Tifani
Rabbi Donsky & Tifani Katof
Saturday, May 16 – 22 lyar, 5769
10:00 am Shabbat Morning Service
Bat Mitzvah of Rena Ferrara
Rabbi Donsky & Tifani Katof
From the Rabbi
On Pesakh we ask at least four questions. This week I have but one to pose. What Jewish festival gets no respect? The Rodney Dangerfield of Jewish celebrations is Shavuot. Even though Shavuot goes by several names from the Bible and the Rabbis it gets little respect. Our tradition calls it “The Festival of Weeks” (7 weeks after Pesakh), “The Festival of the Ingathering” (the barley harvest in the Spring), and “Z’man Matan Torateinu” (the Season of the Giving/our Receiving of the Torah).
Now I can understand why calling a festival “7 Weeks” doesn’t excite some people. And “the festival of the Ingathering” may not be any better for us city dwellers. But the “Season of the Giving/Receiving of the Torah” should have everyone filling the sanctuary to standing room only just as the Israelites stood at Mt. Sinai over 3,000 years ago.
So why is it that many of us, especially in non-Orthodox communities (this not only a reform dilemma) ignore this ancient Biblically ordained festival?
Here are a few possibilities that I can think of, please feel free to share with me yours’:
1) It comes very late in the school year (usually the very end of May or June) and most religious schools are finished and never get around to teaching about it and families and students are counting the days until school “real” is over ;
2) Unlike Pesakh when we have a Seder and make use of the Haggadah or Sukkot when we put up a Sukkah and take up a lulav and etrog, Shavuot doesn’t have anything comparable; (except of the course, the Torah itself)
3) In communities such as ours, while we hold the Torah in very high esteem and give it appropriate honor and respect, because we don’t believe literally in the story of the Revelation at Sinai and don’t observe Halakha, Jewish law, in a literal manner thus the pull of the festival is much less that Pesakh or Sukkot, not to mention Rosh HaShanah or Yom Kippur;
4) Many in the Jewish community, consciously or unconsciously, still believe that Jewish education ends with Bat or Bat Mitzvah and that the celebrating of Kabbalat Torah/Confirmation of our young people at the end of 10th is still not well known.
What do you think? Why doesn’t Shavuot get any respect? While you are contemplating your answer to this question why don’t you save the following date, Friday, May 29 at 7:30 PM when three of our young people, Emily Gibbs, Alex Greenblatt and Kate Rosenzweig will lead our Shavuot/Kabbalat Torah service and share their “Statements of Faith”, their personal remarks about what Judaism means them.
I look forward to hearing your replies and I look forward to wishing you “Hag HaShavuot Sameakh”, a joyous festival of receiving the Torah.
I have not communicated with all of you in quite awhile and thought it was time to express some thoughts, say thank you and share some good news. I am blessed to have been voted in as President by the Board of Directors of our Temple and am enjoying the process of learning the responsibilities of the position. It feels like much longer than six months have passed since I became President. It has been especially interesting to discover all that I didn’t know about the office and its many duties and responsibilities. One of the biggest blessings of this experience is the opportunity to be mentored by past presidents Bill Lowenberger, Maury Locke and Mike Rosenzweig. All three of these men have been unfailingly generous with their wisdom, time and energy. Through their examples and teaching I am hoping to lead this Temple forward in a positive direction in the remaining year of my term.
The Board of directors as a whole is incredibly hardworking and dedicated. They should be commended by this congregation for the time, commitment, work and effort they put in for the betterment of our temple.
A perfect example of this effort is the recent “Night at the Races” fundraiser organized by our fundraising chair Amy Covell with help from her committee and the Women of Ohav Shalom. Everyone had a great time, even those of us who picked no winners, and the evening was a great success on both a social and financial level. This past Friday was the Teacher Appreciation Shabbat followed by a talent show where our youth displayed incredible musical abilities and Rabbi Art brought down the house with a moving rendition of the “B’nai Mitzvah Blues”. Everyone who attended had a fantastic time and I want to personally express my gratitude to the teachers, who make our religious and Hebrew school the best in greater Pittsburgh, Marci Barnes, our Education Director, and all of the talented youth who performed for us. Speaking of Marci Barnes, she is being honored by the Agency for Jewish Learning at an event at the Jewish Community Center on Sunday June 7, 2009 at 11:00 AM for her work with “special needs children”. Congratulations to Marcie for this wonderful recognition and for the great dedication she shows these children.
I want to encourage all congregants to attend our special service Friday night, May 15th, honoring our Cantorial intern, Tifani Katof. It is our opportunity to thank Tifani for all she has done leading our services, and providing educational and spiritual experience for our children these past two years. We wish her the best as she finishes her studies and in her upcoming marriage to Luic!
I want to take this opportunity to introduce you to Nicole Avershal as our new music coordinator and youth advisor. Nikki will be singing at services, teaching in the school, helping tutor B’nai Mitzvah students and will also serve as our youth advisor! We welcome Nikki to our TOS family.
I also want to announce that through the generosity of the Snow family and the 2008-2009 B’nai Mitzvah class families, the Temple is acquiring new siddurim, the Mishkan T’filah. The Snows are making this donation in honor of the Blessed Memory of Richard’s parents, Martin W. Snow and Sylvia Snow.
As President, I have found myself spending more time at the Temple than I had previously. I have always thought of myself as being involved in our congregation but it is a very different experience when in this position. I am more convinced than ever that we have a very special community and that we are blessed by the caring, nurturing and generous character of our members. I am also more convinced that we all have to become more involved, attend more functions, come to more services, and give our time. Through this involvement our community will grow, our relationships with each other grow deeper, and our temple will prosper. The summer is coming which usually equates to the slow time in Temple activity. Please take this time and consider what you and your families can do to become more involved in Temple life and to help our community flourish.
B’shalom
Ralph
TALENT SHOW
The talent show was held last Friday, May 1, and benefited the Squirrel Hill Food Pantry. You can still drop off kosher canned goods at the Temple, and checks (addressed to the Squirrel Hill Food Pantry) can either be sent or dropped off at the Lifelong Learning Office.
Thanks,
Naomi
MEMBERSHIP LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES
The Rabbi is offering a series of classes called TOS 201 – What do Jews Believe?
Classes will be held on Tuesdays, May 12, 19, and 26. Lunch-n-Learn will take place at 12 noon (bring a bag lunch) and evening classes at 7 PM. Classes are free to members and prospective members.
Tuesday, May 12th – What do Jews Believe about God?
Tuesday, May 19th – What do Jews Believe about the After Life?
Tuesday, May 26th – What do Jews Believe about being a ‘Good’ Jew?
Come to one or all three and bring your questions. Handouts will be provided. Please RSVP to Laura Flieder at or 724-449-2779.
PITTSBURGH RACE FOR THE CURE
We now have a team of 10 people who, together, have raised over $1300 for this cause!! Join fellow TOS members on Mother’s Day (May 10th) at the Pittsburgh Race for the Cure! It is a beautiful day of celebration and remembrance for those touched by breast cancer. Your participation will help provide the necessary funding to fight breast cancer in our region. Join us as we strive to end breast cancer forever. RUNNERS and WALKERS are welcome! Bring your CHILDREN… there is a 1 mile fun run/walk that you can do with your kids! To register, or to get more information, go to http://www.pittsburghraceforthecure.org. Click on “Join an existing team” to find the Temple Ohav Shalom team. Elana Kriess (724-452-7043)
GIFT SHOP
Now that Sunday school is over for the year, the gift shop is on a summer schedule. We will be glad to meet you any time. Please call either Elaine Cohen 412-364-8484 or Andi Turkheimer 412-367-7864 so set an appointment. We have many items that will make beautiful engagement and wedding gifts, Bar and Bat Mitzvah tallit and gifts, and lovely Judaica items. Please visit us first. There is no need to go to Squirrel Hill.
UPCOMING EVENTS
Friday, May 8th 11:30Am Pre-School Mother’s Tea
Tuesday, May 12th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about God?) TOS 201
Friday, May 15th 7:30PM Shabbat honoring Tifani Katof Guest Rabbi: Rabbi Mark Mahler
Tuesday, May 19th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about the After Life?) TOS 201
Friday May 15th 6:15 Tot Shabbat
Thursday, May 21st Last Day of Pre-School!
Tuesday, May 26th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about being a ‘Good’ Jew?) TOS 201
Friday, July 3rd All American Pre-Shabbat Barbeque
Friday, August 28th Shabbat In The Park
SCHEDULE OF WORSHIP SERVICES FOR MAY
Parashat Emor
Friday, May 8 14 lyar, 5769
7:30 pm Kabbalat Shabbat
Rabbi Donsky & Tifani Katof
Saturday, May 9 15 lyar, 5769
10:00 am Shabbat Morning Service
Bar Mitzvah of Jason Weis
Rabbi Donsky & Tifani Katof
Parashat Behar – Behukotai
Friday, May 15 21 lyar, 5769
6:15 pm Tot Shabbat
7:30 pm Kabbalat Shabbat
Rabbi Mark Mahler – Honoring Tifani
Rabbi Donsky & Tifani Katof
Saturday, May 16 – 22 lyar, 5769
10:00 am Shabbat Morning Service
Bat Mitzvah of Rena Ferrara
Rabbi Donsky & Tifani Katof
This week we welcome the month of May with a double Torah portion, Aharei Mot – Kedoshim. These portions contain some of our Torah’s key texts, the Yom Kippur scapegoat ritual and the Holiness Code, respectively.
In the latter portion we are taught, “v’ahavta l’rey’a’ha k’mokha, ani Adonai,” “you shall love [be loyal] your neighbor as yourself, I am the Eternal.” Historical, of course, this ancient Torah command meant showing loyalty to your fellow Israelite kinsperson. Our sages and teachers over time came to interpret the Torah’s words more broadly. Now, these sacred words remind us year in and year out how we must relate to our neighbors, our fellow humans beings, whether they live next door to us or half a world away, whether Jew or Gentile, Protestant or Catholic, Buddhist or Muslim, Hindu or Sikh.
Yes, of course, there are times when it is awfully difficult to fulfill this mitzvah, this sacred obligation, when relating to those outside of our familiar circle of family and friends, however, this is when I believe it is all the more important.
Two weeks ago I had the privilege of meeting and sharing a meal with Dr. Izzeldin Abuelaish, a Palestinian physician, and a Nobel Peace prize nominee, from Gaza who spoke at the Jewish Community Center. Dr. Abuelaish, you may remember, in the early hours of January 16th, after speaking to a variety of individuals at the JCC on January 15th via cell phone Gaza, lost three of his daughters to an Israeli rocket attack on his home. (This horrific tragedy was determined to be an accident and the Israeli government will compensate his family).
You may listen to Dr. Abuelaish’s presentation from the JCC by clicking on this link.
While I cannot do justice to his remarks in this small space, let me say that in spite of his terrible loss, Dr. Abuelaish’s intense personal Muslim faith and his over arching love for humanity have allowed him to overcome the desire for revenge or the creation of a life of hatred. Instead, he is an example someone fulfilling God’s demand to be “loyal to your neighbor” even in the midst of the most awful moments in his life.
May Dr. Abuelaish’s example of “kedushat haShem”, sanctifying God’s name, be an inspiration for us even in the darkest moments of our own lives and even at times when true justice and peace between Israelis and Palestinians may seem difficult to achieve with the new Israeli government.
B’shalom,
Rabbi Art Donsky
ADDITIONAL SHIVA INFORMATION FOR PAUL HYMAN
This is follow-up information to the announcement you received yesterday. Bobbi Harley says she will have an additional night of Shivah this Sunday, @ 8:00PM at her home in Franklin Park. Andi Turkheimer is coordinating the arrangements. 412-367-7864
TEACHER APPRECIATION DINNER & FIRST FRIDAY
This Friday, May 1st, is First Friday & Teacher Appreciation Shabbat Dinner! Your teachers and volunteers will be among the staff members being honored at Shabbat Services. Please come and bring your family to help us say “THANK YOU!” to your teachers for a job well done!! A-M please bring a side dish for 10. N-Z bring a dessert for 10. People have been forgetting the dishes.
PLEASE BE SURE TO EMAIL YOUR RSVP to or call so we have an accurate count, even if you have paid for the year. Thank you
CEMETERY MARKETING
( I am repeating this because after running it a few weeks ago, Danielle was in a car accident and could not work. Then Pesach came, so this marketing will begin next week again—Elliot)
Many members may not know this, but there is a section of Allegheny County Memorial Park that is designated the Jewish Section for Temple Ohav Shalom. This was done in the late 1980’s. The cemetery has changed management a few times since then and we recently met with the current management to discuss landscaping etc. Though a relatively young congregation, we have now had families which have had all the life cycle events at our temple (births, naming, b’nai mitzvah’s, marriage and burials). The Temple Ohav Shalom Cemetery Gardens has approximately 432 sites available for us. Part of our agreement was to allow solicitation for grave sales by providing membership information to the cemetery sales person. Our representative is Danielle Matascik (412.366.8296). She will begin a marketing effort shortly. Please contact Elliot if you have any questions or concerns.
MEMBERSHIP LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES
The Rabbi is offering a series of classes called TOS 201 – What do Jews Believe?
Classes will be held on Tuesdays, May 12, 19, and 26. Lunch-n-Learn will take place at 12 noon (bring a bag lunch) and evening classes at 7 PM. Classes are free to members and prospective members.
Tuesday, May 12th – What do Jews Believe about God?
Tuesday, May 19th – What do Jews Believe about the After Life?
Tuesday, May 26th – What do Jews Believe about being a ‘Good’ Jew?
Come to one or all three and bring your questions. Handouts will be provided. Please RSVP to Laura Flieder at or 724-449-2779.
PITTSBURGH RACE FOR THE CURE
We now have a team of 10 people who, together, have raised over $1300 for this cause!!
Join fellow TOS members on Mother’s Day (May 10th) at the Pittsburgh Race for the Cure! It is a beautiful day of celebration and remembrance for those touched by breast cancer. Your participation will help provide the necessary funding to fight breast cancer in our region. Join us as we strive to end breast cancer forever. RUNNERS and WALKERS are welcome! Bring your CHILDREN… there is a 1 mile fun run/walk that you can do with your kids!
To register, or to get more information, go to http://www.pittsburghraceforthecure.org. Click on “Join an existing team” to find the Temple Ohav Shalom team. Elana Kriess (724-452-7043)
GIFT SHOP
The Gift Shop is open during Sunday School and by appointment. Contact Elaine Cohen - 412-364-8484 or Andi Turkheimer 412-367-7864. We have many beautiful items for all aspects of Jewish life. There is no need to go to Squirrel Hill - visit us first!
UPCOMING EVENTS
Friday, May 1st 6:00PM First Friday Dinner
Friday, May 1st 7:00PM First Friday Services –Teacher Appreciation Shabbat & Oneg
Friday, May 1st Talent Show right after services
Friday, May 8th 11:30Am Pre-School Mother’s Tea
Tuesday, May 12th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about God?) TOS 201
Friday, May 15th 7:30PM Shabbat honoring Tifani Katof Guest Rabbi: Rabbi Mark Mahler
Tuesday, May 19th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about the After Life?) TOS 201
Friday May 15th 6:15 Tot Shabbat
Thursday, May 21st Last Day of Pre-School!
Tuesday, May 26th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about being a ‘Good’ Jew?) TOS 201
Friday, July 3rd All American Pre-Shabbat Barbeque
Friday, August 28th Shabbat In The Park
SCHEDULE OF WORSHIP SERVICES FOR MAY
Parashat Achrei Mot-Kedoshim
Friday, May 1 7 lyar, 5769
6:00 pm Dinner for All
7:00 pm First Friday Kabbalat Shabbat
Rabbi Donsky & Nikki Avershal
Saturday, May 2 8 lyar, 5769
10:00 am Shabbat Morning Service
Bat Mitzvah of Hannah Fassler
Rabbi Donsky & Nikki Avershal
Saturday, May 23 – 29 lyar, 5769
10:00 am Shabbat Morning Service
Bat Mitzvah of Becky Lebovitz
Rabbi Donsky & Shara Taylor
Shavuot
Friday, May 29 – 6 Sivan, 5769
7:30 pm Kabbalat Torah
10th Grade Graduation
Rabbi Donsky & Shara Taylor
Saturday, May 30 – 7 Sivan, 5769
10:00 am Shabbat Morning Service
Bar Mitzvah of Andres Hoberman
Rabbi Donsky & Bill Lowenberger
Happy May Birthdays
1 Jacob Vries
2 Michael Feldman
3 Alex Levine
4 Noah Frank
Jeremy West
5 Rena Ferrara
8 Alexander Auron
Jared Orons
10 Lauren Berlin
Benjamin Maenza
Casey Mann
11 Jenna Marinstein
12 Elana Fishbaine
15 Leah Popkin
16 Brian Boehmke
19 Rachael Harrison
20 Matthew Kramer
21 Steven Schorr
24 Charney Burg
MAY YAHZEITS
May Their Memories Be For A Blessing
May 1 / lyar 7
Adolph Markowitz
Father of Daryl Jean Marks
May 3 / lyar 9
David Newman
Stepfather of Maury Locke
May 7 / lyar 13
Irving Hurwitz
Father of Cathy Filson
May 8 / lyar 14
S. William Locke
Father of Maury Locke
May 12 / lyar 18
Katherine Barash
Mother of Mark Barash
Bernard Zvirman
Father of Charles Zvirman
May 13 / lyar 19
Lawrence Ginsburg
Father of Michael Ginsburg
May 15 / lyar 21
Shirley Strahl
Mother of Shelley Piechowicz
May 16 / lyar 22
Sandra Belloff
Sister of Barbara Laine
May 17 / lyar 23
Ida Burns
Mother of Audrey Baker
May 20 / lyar 26
Beth Hyatt-Golling
Sister of Arlene Pauley
William Levenson
Father of Susan Goldman
May 23 / lyar 29
Meyer Goddy
Spouse of Frances Goddy
Father of Joanne Pampena
May 25 / Sivan 2
Ralph Brodsky
Father of Allan Brodsky
Mildred Pankey
Mother of Eileen Burke
May 27 / Sivan 4
Maurice Rosenthal
Husband of Ann Rosenthal
Father of Elaine Cohen
Norman Zakowitz
Father of Hilary Daninhirsch
May 28 / Sivan 5
Josef Lifson
Father of Melvyn Lifson
May 29 /Sivan 6
Marian Weiner
Mother of Nancy Garber
Next week, on Wednesday we will celebrate Israel Independence Day! The Jewish Community Center of Greater Pittsburgh in Squirrel Hill will host what I am sure will be beautiful gathering celebrating Israel’s 61 st year and Tel Aviv’s 100th year as a modern Jewish city. The festivities will be held from 4 PM to 9 PM this event will certainly be family friendly so please consider carpooling with friends and take your children to enjoy the afternoon.
Also, make sure you mark your calendars for two special Shabbat evenings. Friday, May 1 st , 7:00 PM is our annual Teacher Recognition Shabbat at which we will honor our very dedicated faculty including our many Ozrim, student aides, who are so important to our education program.
Finally, on Friday, May 15 th , at 7:30 PM, we will celebrate our student cantor, Tifani Katof, who will be concluding her tenure with us in June. Joining us for this special and very musical Shabbat service will be Rabbi Mark Mahler, from Temple Emanuel of the South Hills. Rabbi Mahler was Tifani’s rabbi when she growing up in Upper St. Claire.
B’shalom,
Rabbi Art Donsky
An Evening at the Races - Wrapup
Thank you to everyone who participated, contributed, solicited, worked , attended and helped out with this year’s fundraiser, “An Evening at the Races.” It was a huge success and couldn’t have been done without everyone’s help. I especially want to thank Kimberly Schorr, Marcie Fassler, Kim Popkin, Elana Kriess, Jon Mass, Leon Tate and Beth Mongilio, and, or course, Richard! I couldn’t have done this without all their help and support!!! Also, to Meredith Silberman, Laura Flieder, Cheryl Bradshaw, Neil Popkin and Ilene Greenblatt who helped with set-up and clean-up!
My heartfelt thank you again to everyone! You brought “Nite at the Races” back this year and made it incredibly successful!!
Amy
TOT SHABBAT & TEACHER APPRECIATION & ONEG
This Friday, April 24 th is TOT SHABBAT. Please RSVP to Elliot @
On Friday, May 1 st , your teachers and volunteers will be among the staff members being honored at Shabbat Services. Please come and bring your family to help us say “THANK YOU!” to your teachers for a job well done!! RSVP to Elliot. A-M please bring a side dish for 10. N-Z bring a dessert for 10. People have been forgetting the dishes. Flyer attached.
MEMBERSHIP LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES
The Rabbi is offering a series of classes called TOS 201 – What do Jews Believe?
Classes will be held on Tuesdays, May 12, 19, and 26. Lunch-n-Learn will take place at 12 noon (bring a bag lunch) and evening classes at 7 PM. Classes are free to members and prospective members.
Tuesday, May 12 th – What do Jews Believe about God?
Tuesday, May 19 th – What do Jews Believe about the After Life?
Tuesday, May 26 th – What do Jews Believe about being a ‘Good’ Jew?
Come to one or all three and bring your questions. Handouts will be provided. Please RSVP to Laura Flieder at or 724-449-2779.
PITTSBURGH RACE FOR THE CURE
We now have a team of 10 people who, together, have raised over $1300 for this cause!!
Join fellow TOS members on Mother’s Day (May 10th) at the Pittsburgh Race for the Cure! It is a beautiful day of celebration and remembrance for those touched by breast cancer. Your participation will help provide the necessary funding to fight breast cancer in our region. Join us as we strive to end breast cancer forever. RUNNERS and WALKERS are welcome! Bring your CHILDREN… there is a 1 mile fun run/walk that you can do with your kids!
To register, or to get more information, go to http://www.pittsburghraceforthecure.org . Click on “Join an existing team” to find the Temple Ohav Shalom team. Elana Kriess (724-452-7043)
GOLF OUTING CANCELLED
The GolF Tournament, originally scheduled for May 8th is canceled. However, the Men’s Club is still going golfing!We have reserved tee times on Saturday, May 9th, not Friday the 8th, starting at 8:45 AM at Pittsburgh North. This day will be just for the fun of it; no prizes, no sponsors, etc.; just golf! Please let me know if you are interested in playing that Saturday.
GIFT SHOP
The Gift Shop is open during Sunday School and by appointment. Contact Elaine Cohen - 412-364-8484 or Andi Turkheimer 412-367-7864. We have many beautiful items for all aspects of Jewish life. There is no need to go to Squirrel Hill - visit us first!
UPCOMING EVENTS
Friday, April 24 th 6:15PM Tot Shabbat (4 th Friday this month)
Sunday, April 26 th 1:00PM-4:00PM Mah Jongg Social Hall
Monday, April 27 th 7:30PM Board meeting Social Hall
Wednesday, April 29 th Preschool Field Trip-Beechwood Farms
Friday, May 1 st 6:00PM First Friday Dinner
Friday, May 1 st 7 :00PM First Friday Services –Teacher Appreciation Shabbat & Oneg
Friday, May 1 st Talent Show right after services
Friday, May 8 th 11:30Am Pre-School Mother’s Tea
Tuesday, May 12 th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about God?) TOS 201
Friday, May 15 th 7:30PM Shabbat honoring Tifani Katof Guest Rabbi: Rabbi Mark Mahler
Tuesday, May 19 th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about the After Life?) TOS 201
Friday May 15 th 6:15 Tot Shabbat
Thursday, May 21 st Last Day of Pre-School!
Tuesday, May 26 th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about being a ‘Good’ Jew?) TOS 201
Friday, July 3 rd All American Pre-Shabbat Barbeque
Friday, August 28 th Shabbat In The Park
SCHEDULE OF WORSHIP SERVICES FOR APRIL
Parashat Tazria-Metzora
As Pesakh comes to a joyful conclusion (yes, I’m ready for some good Challah) we prepare for a more somber observance, that of Holocaust Remembrance Day. This year our community’s gathering will take on Sunday evening, April 19th at 7:00 PM. Shara Taylor will join me on the bima for a brief program including the chanting of the memorial prayer, El Malei Rahamim and the lighting of six Yellow Yom HaShoah Memorial Candles.
Rabbi Danny Schiff, the Agency for Jewish Learning’s Community Scholar, will be our featured speaker. Rabbi Schiff will share his thoughts about “What Would the Jewish World be like had the Holocaust not Happened?” Members of our Spiritual Enrichment Committee suggested this challenging topic. Please plan to join us for this very unique memorial program.
I also want to share with you the words of a letter that I received yesterday from the local Unitarian Universalist Church of the North Hills. Pat McGlone, President of their Board of Trustees wrote:
“Dear Rabbi Donsky,
The Unitarian Universalist Church of the North Hills congregation deplores the defilement of your Holocaust Memorial Garden. It is an act of hatred and prejudice, which sadly still exists despite all of our efforts to build a peaceful and just world.
UUCNH strives to impress upon our children and youth, respect for the world’s religions and the inherent worth and dignity of all people. We strive to build a church community, which addresses social injustice when it occurs. As a congregation, we value Temple Ohav Shalom as a neighbor and support your efforts to assure these acts of hatred do not go unnoticed.
Sincerely,
Pat McGlone
President
UUCNH Board of Trustees”
These friends also sent an envelope with cards and drawings from their children expressing their sadness and hurt about the Nazi swastika that was painted in our garden. (Elliot has included them below)
We should be very grateful to have such good neighbors who support us and all peoples that seek to repair our world from the hatred and prejudice that still exists.
Rabbi Art
AN EVENING AT THE RACES! Saturday, April 18th!
We are coming down the final stretch and headed for the finish line!
Win, Place or Show- Everyone is a winner when you come to our annual fundraiser!
If you find yourself with nothing to do Saturday night you can still attend “An Evening at the Races.” Just pay the same great price of $20 per person and $40 per couple at the door. Join the festivities- horse race wagering, silent auction, 50/50 drawing and the daily double. In keeping with derby tradition wear a hat. Most creative wins a Prize! All you can drink and eat appetizers, desserts, beer and wine! If anyone would like to still donate a product or service for the Silent Auction please contact Amy Covell at or (724) 772-8117. Let’s work together to make this event the best EVER!!!! See you all Saturday night at 7pm in the Social Hall.
Don’t be late - Racing starts at 8!
YOM Hashoah
This year we are observing Holocaust Memorial Day on Sunday, April 19th at 7 PM when Rabbi Danny Schiff will be our guest speaker. We are observing it a day early so that members of our community, who wish, may attend the community wide observance in the city on the following evening. Rabbi Schiff will present “What Would the Jewish World be like had the Holocaust Not Happened?” Rabbi Schiff is the Pittsburgh Community Scholar with the Agency for Jewish Learning. He is an exciting and challenging speaker! Yellow Candle Memorial Lighting and El Malei Rahamim will be included.
FROM THE UNITARIAN UNIVERSALIST CHURCH
From the children in response to the swastika incident in the Memorial Gardens:
Dear Ohav Shalom Temple,
We are truly sorry about what happened in your garden. We just want you to know that we are supporting and thinking of you.
We are very sorry about the incident in your garden. We sympathize with you and just want you to know that we care and are thinking of you.
From the Church at large:
Friends at Ohav Shalom Temple,
There may be those who are against you, but we stand with you. With love, With Sympathy, In strength,
Your friends at UUCNH
TEACHER APPRECIATION & ONEG
On Friday, May 1st, your teachers and volunteers will be among the staff members being honored at Shabbat Services. Please come and bring your family to help us say “THANK YOU!” to your teachers for a job well done!!
GOOD & WELFARE
Rob Sapinkopf, new member and board member, has been appointed by the Township of Pine Board of Supervisors to the Northern Tier Regional Library Board of Trustees.
MEMBERSHIP LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES
The Rabbi is offering a series of classes called TOS 201 – What do Jews Believe?
Classes will be held on Tuesdays, May 12, 19, and 26. Lunch-n-Learn will take place at 12 noon (bring a bag lunch) and evening classes at 7 PM. Classes are free to members and prospective members.
Tuesday, May 12th – What do Jews Believe about God?
Tuesday, May 19th – What do Jews Believe about the After Life?
Tuesday, May 26th – What do Jews Believe about being a ‘Good’ Jew?
Come to one or all three and bring your questions. Handouts will be provided. Please RSVP to Laura Flieder at or 724-449-2779.
Have a Healthy and Happy Passover.
Thanks,
Laura Flieder
PITTSBURGH RACE FOR THE CURE
Join fellow TOS members and friends on Mother’s Day (May 10th) at the Pittsburgh Race for the Cure! It is a beautiful day of celebration and remembrance for those touched by breast cancer. Your participation in the 2009 Race and the Dick’s Sporting Goods Pledge Program will help provide the necessary funding for education, screening and treatment programs to fight breast cancer in our region. Join us as we strive to end breast cancer forever. RUNNERS and WALKERS are welcome! Bring your CHILDREN… there is a 1 mile fun run/walk that you can do with your kids!
To register, or to get more information, go to http://www.pittsburghraceforthecure.org. Click on “Join an existing team” to find the Temple Ohav Shalom team. Elana Kriess (724-452-7043)
SUPERHEROS NEEDED!
Have you ever wanted to be a Superhero? I am sure secretly everyone in their lifetime has had this dream. Now is your chance to make it reality. Every child needs a hero, but abused children need Superheroes. Why not have that Superhero be you?! All you need to do is participate in the Superhero 5K Run/Walk
April 18, 2009 North Park: Oregon Pavillion
Registration*:8am Start time:9am
Cost:$20 prior to event or$25 event day
Proceeds benefit Parental Stress Center
*Attached is the registration form, you can also register online at
I am one of the main organizers of this event and I appreciate your support
Erica Burg
GIFT SHOP
The Gift Shop is open during Sunday School and by appointment. Contact Elaine Cohen - 412-364-8484 or Andi Turkheimer 412-367-7864. We have many beautiful items for all aspects of Jewish life. There is no need to go to Squirrel Hill - visit us first!
UPCOMING EVENTS
Friday, April 17th 7:30 Shabbat Services
Saturday, April 18th 7:30 PM NIGHT AT THE RACES! TOS Social Hall
Sunday, April 19th 11:30AM-1:00PM Talent Show Auditions
Sunday, April 19th 7:00PM Yom Ha Shoah Observance Guest: Rabbi Danny Schiff
Friday, April 24th 6:15PM Tot Shabbat (4th Friday this month)
Sunday, April 26th 1:00PM-4:00PM Mah Jongg Social Hall
Monday, April 27th 7:30PM Board meeting Social Hall
Wednesday, April 29th Preschool Field Trip-Beechwood Farms
Friday, May 1st 6:00PM First Friday Dinner
Friday, May 1st 7:00PM First Friday Services –Teacher Appreciation Shabbat & Oneg
Friday, May 1st Talent Show right after services
Friday, May 8th 11:30Am Pre-School Mother’s Tea
Tuesday, May 12th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about God?) TOS 201
Friday, May 15th 7:30PM Shabbat honoring Tifani Katof Guest Rabbi: Rabbi Mark Mahler
Tuesday, May 19th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about the After Life?) TOS 201
Friday May 15th 6:15 Tot Shabbat
Thursday, May 21st Last Day of Pre-School!
Tuesday, May 26th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about being a ‘Good’ Jew?) TOS 201
Friday, July 3rd All American Pre-Shabbat Barbeque
Friday, August 28th Shabbat In The Park
SCHEDULE OF WORSHIP SERVICES FOR APRIL
Parashat Shemini
Friday, April 17 23 Nissan, 5769
7:30 pm Kabbalat Shabbat
Rabbi Donsky & Gerri Greenberg
Saturday, April 18 24 Nissan, 5769
10:00am Shabbat Morning Service
Rabbi Donsky
Tonight we will gather with family and friends for our first Seder. Pesakh (Passover), our Festival of Freedom, invites us to open the Haggadah and enter into our people’s story “from degradation to liberty, from idolatry to praise of God.”
The Seder is also a time for asking questions by young and old alike. Let me suggest one you may want to add to your Seder: “Mah nishtana halailah hazeh” (Why is this night different than all other nights?) On all other nights we may take for granted the protection and security we receive from police, fire, emergency service and other public servants, on this night, we remember the three fallen members of the Pittsburgh police force, Eric Kelly, Paul J. Sciullo II and Stephen J. Mayle, who lost their lives serving and protecting our community.
The plague of too many dangerous weapons continues to haunt our community. Placed in the hands of individuals like the accused killer, Richard Poplawski, our society suffers.
May the memory of these three brave men always be for a blessing. And may their families find comfort in the knowledge that their loved ones have returned to the Holy One, the source of life in the universe.
B’shalom,
Rabbi Art Donsky
AN EVENING AT THE RACES! Saturday, April 18th!
We are in the final stretch so don’t get left behind!
You can still send in your reservations for our annual fundraiser, “An Evening at the Races” now! Horses are almost gone so if you email us NOW you can still have a horse but DON’T WAIT LONG!!!! Also, we have 3 race sponsorships left for only $75 per race so hurry up and send yours in today! If anyone would like to still donate a product or service for the Silent Auction (ie., golf for 4, weekend getaways, hotel overnights, sports tickets, autographed sports items, restaurant gift certificates, jewelry or any other products or services please contact Amy Covell at or (724) 772-8117. Let’s work together to make this event the best EVER!!!!
Thank You Oneg Hosts!
The Women of Ohav Shalom would like to thank the individuals who have graciously volunteered their time and effort to host an Oneg in March and April of this year: Temple of Ohav Shalom Board Members, Spiritual Enrichment Committee Members, Hadassah, the Dickter family on behalf of Ben Gibb’s Bar Mitzvah, and the Roger’s family. A special thank you goes out to Judy Roseman, Gerri Greenberg and Renee Bruckner for baking 200 hamantaschen to be shared during the Purim Play, carnival and service. Thank you for participating in this mitzvah for our temple.
Host an Oneg April 17th?
Time is running out to host an Oneg before summer arrives. We still need an Oneg host for April 17th. Please help keep this wonderful tradition thriving and volunteer to host a Friday night Oneg. Please e-mail or call Joni Ferrara to schedule a date: or (724) 933-3923. Volunteers (and cookies) are greatly appreciated!
YOM Hashoah
This year we are observing Holocaust Memorial Day on Sunday, April 19th at 7 PM when Rabbi Danny Schiff will be our guest speaker. We are observing it a day early so that members of our community, who wish, may attend the community wide observance in the city on the following evening. Rabbi Schiff will present “What Would the Jewish World be like had the Holocaust Not Happened?” Rabbi Schiff is the Pittsburgh Community Scholar with the Agency for Jewish Learning. He is an exciting and challenging speaker! Yellow Candle Memorial Lighting and El Malei Rahamim will be included.
COLLEGE CONNECTION
Many thanks once again to Peggy Joplin for sending out Pesach Packages to all our college students! Peggy does this every year for us.
TEACHER APPRECIATION & ONEG
On Friday, May 1st, your teachers and volunteers will be among the staff members being honored at Shabbat Services. Please come and bring your family to help us say “THANK YOU!” to your teachers for a job well done!!
MEMBERSHIP LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES
The Rabbi is offering a series of classes called TOS 201 – What do Jews Believe?
Classes will be held on Tuesdays, May 12, 19, and 26. Lunch-n-Learn will take place at 12 noon (bring a bag lunch) and evening classes at 7 PM. Classes are free to members and prospective members.
Tuesday, May 12th – What do Jews Believe about God?
Tuesday, May 19th – What do Jews Believe about the After Life?
Tuesday, May 26th – What do Jews Believe about being a ‘Good’ Jew?
Come to one or all three and bring your questions. Handouts will be provided. Please RSVP to Laura Flieder at or 724-449-2779.
Have a Healthy and Happy Passover.
Thanks,
Laura Flieder
GOLF WITH TIGER!
Jeff “Tiger” Flieder is pleased to announce the 2nd Annual TOS Golf Tournament
The 2nd annual TOS Golf Tournament will be held on Friday, May 8th at Pittsburgh North Golf Club. The format will be a 4 person best-ball scramble. There will be a shotgun start commencing at 12:30 PM. The cost is $300/foursome or $75 per individual golfer. We are also looking for corporate sponsorships which are available at the following levels:
Platinum Sponsors: $750 which includes 19th hole party sponsorship and a corporate sign/logo posted at the event.
Gold Sponsors: $500 which includes signage on beverage cart, and your company logo on beverage tickets
Corporate Hole Sponsor: $350 which includes 1 foursome and your company sign on a Tee Box
Supporting Sponsor: $50 which includes company sign on Tee Box
We are also looking for donations for goodie bags and gift cards as grand prizes.
If you are interested in a sponsorship or would like to make a donation to the tournament, please contact Jeff Flieder at or 724-449-2779.
SUPERHEROS NEEDED!
Have you ever wanted to be a Superhero? I am sure secretly everyone in their lifetime has had this dream. Now is your chance to make it reality. Every child needs a hero, but abused children need Superheroes. Why not have that Superhero be you?! All you need to do is participate in the Superhero 5K Run/Walk
April 18, 2009 North Park: Oregon Pavillion
Registration*:8am Start time:9am
Cost:$20 prior to event or$25 event day
Proceeds benefit Parental Stress Center
*Attached is the registration form, you can also register online at
https://www.active.com/event_detail.cfm?event_id=1693954
Participants are encouraged to come dressed as their favorite superhero but not required. There will be prizes for best costumes.
Want to help, but can’t make it? Have no fear, Facebook is here! You can paste the link below and donate
I am one of the main organizers of this event and I appreciate your support
Erica Burg
GIFT SHOP
The Gift Shop is open during Sunday School and by appointment. Contact Elaine Cohen - 412-364-8484 or Andi Turkheimer 412-367-7864. We have many beautiful items for all aspects of Jewish life. There is no need to go to Squirrel Hill - visit us first!
UPCOMING EVENTS
April 9th -15th PRE-SCHOOL CLOSED Passover Break
Saturday, April 18th NIGHT AT THE RACES! TOS Social Hall
Sunday, April 19th 11:30AM-1:00PM Talent Show Auditions
Sunday, April 19th 7:00PM Yom Ha Shoah Observance Guest: Rabbi Danny Schiff
Friday, April 24th 6:15PM Tot Shabbat (4th Friday this month)
Sunday, April 26th 1:00PM-4:00PM Mah Jongg Social Hall
Monday, April 27th 7:30PM Board meeting Social Hall
Wednesday, April 29th Preschool Field Trip-Beechwood Farms
Friday, May 1st 6:00PM First Friday Dinner
Friday, May 1st 7:00PM First Friday Services –Teacher Appreciation Shabbat & Oneg
Friday, May 1st Talent Show right after services
Friday, May 8th 11:30Am Pre-School Mother’s Tea
Tuesday, May 12th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about God?) TOS 201
Friday, May 15th 7:30PM Shabbat honoring Tifani Katof Guest Rabbi: Rabbi Mark Mahler
Tuesday, May 19th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about the After Life?) TOS 201
Friday May 15th 6:15 Tot Shabbat
Thursday, May 21st Last Day of Pre-School!
Tuesday, May 26th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about being a ‘Good’ Jew?) TOS 201
Friday, July 3rd All American Pre-Shabbat Barbeque
Friday, August 28th Shabbat In The Park
As you know by now, sadly we, as a community, experienced a cowardly and hateful act of swastika spray-painted on a wall in our Holocaust Memorial Garden. Such perverse and ignorant actions bring painful memories to some of us; and disbelief and anger to others.
These are some of the words of welcome that I shared last Sunday afternoon at the Interfaith Gathering that we hosted, attended by more than 200 people from the North Hills.
“This annual gathering has always been a day for blessing, for learning, for understanding and for acceptance.
Sadly, I must share with you that sometime this past Friday evening after our Sabbath services concluded and families left the temple building and the next morning when some returned for our Sabbath morning service and a Bar Mitzvah, someone or ones spray painted a swastika on one of the walls in our Holocaust Memorial Garden.
So, yes it is important that we are here. However, I doubt that the person or persons who committed this hate-crime are with us.
How do we reach them? How do we teach them? We, human beings, are not born hating; it is something one learns. So while it is important that we gather and continue to engage in our efforts to create a better, more peaceful community, more must be done beyond these walls as well as the walls and homes where we pray and live.
We must be ever vigilant against all acts of hatred and prejudice whenever and wherever they occur, we must remember so that others don’t forget!”
WE MUST REMEMBER SO THAT OTHERS DON’T FORGET!
We are a people of remembering. Remembering is active memory, not passive reminisces. Remember is telling and retelling; it is something we do every year when we gather for our Pesakh Sedarim. This year I encourage you to take some time at your Seder and doing some very important remembering.
This year – make a place for Gilad Shalit at your Seder Table. Leave an empty chair. Put an empty plate. Set an empty cup for wine. Gilad is the young Israeli soldier kidnapped and held hostage by Hamas. Please see the attached educational material from the Jewish Agency for Israel about Gilad. Use this opportunity to discuss the important Mitzvah of Pidyon sh’vu’im (redeeming captives), something we have done for 1,000’s of years.
May you and your family enjoy a sweet and joyous Pesakh,
Rabbi Art Donsky
PS:
We wish our Marci Barnes, Director of Lifelong Learning, refuah sh’leimah, a complete recovery from her recent appendectomy surgery.
WOS/HADASSAH Afternoon at the Movies! Note corrected email to RSVP
Join the Woman of Ohav on April 5th at 4:00PM for the movie: Arranged! This will take place at the home of Renee Bruckner. Snacks and drinks will be served. RSVP to Kathy @ by April 1st!
THE MUSIC NEVER STOPS AT TOS!
Greet the morning air with song……..
In preparation for Tifani & Friends at Borders (Saturday April 4th, 5:00PM), there’s a link in red on the home page directly under the “Welcome” section where you can listen to three songs by the group right from the site.
INTERFAITH GATHERING
Thank you to all who helped make the 12th Annual Interfaith Gathering a huge success: to Rabbi Donsky who supported and worked with the committee from the beginning and welcomed everyone to the afternoon event; to Aliyah Donsky who chose the music to match this year’s theme and taught and led the Youth Chorus; to Larry Goldberg and the Men’s Club who helped the overflow crowd find parking in both ours and the YWCA lots; to Jeffrey Rabinowitz and his fellow Troop # 329 Boy Scouts who welcomed the attendees and helped them find their way to the various classrooms; to Ruth who duplicated materials for us; and Richard who worked extra to welcome guests to our beautiful building! Also, thanks to Elliot for the many eweekly announcements inviting the Temple membership and to those who attended this 12th Annual Gathering!
Clemmy Brodsky
TALENT SHOW
Auditions for the Friday May 1st talent show will be Tuesday, April 7th from 4:45-5:30 and Sunday, April 19th from 11:30AM-1:00PM Email Emily at if you would like to audition.
MEMBERSHIP LEARNING OPPORTUNITIES
Spring is upon us; at least that is what the calendar says. What a great time to take a class or two at TOS. The following class is being offered here and they are free to members and potential members:
TOS 201 – What do Jews Believe?
We are offering three sessions about what Jews believe. Classes will be held on Tuesdays, May 12, 19, and 26. Lunch-n-Learn will take place at 12 noon (bring a bag lunch) and evening classes at 7 PM. Classes are free to members and prospective members.
Tuesday, May 12th – What do Jews Believe about God?
Tuesday, May 19th – What do Jews Believe about the After Life?
Tuesday, May 26th – What do Jews Believe about being a ‘Good’ Jew?
Come to one or all three and bring your questions. Handouts will be provided. Please RSVP to Laura Flieder at or 724-449-2779.
Thanks,
Laura Flieder
GOLF WITH TIGER!
Jeff “Tiger” Flieder is pleased to announce the 2nd Annual TOS Golf Tournament
The 2nd annual TOS Golf Tournament will be held on Friday, May 8th at Pittsburgh North Golf Club. The format will be a 4 person best-ball scramble. There will be a shotgun start commencing at 12:30 PM. The cost is $300/foursome or $75 per individual golfer. We are also looking for corporate sponsorships which are available at the following levels:
Platinum Sponsors: $750 which includes 19th hole party sponsorship and a corporate sign/logo posted at the event.
Gold Sponsors: $500 which includes signage on beverage cart, and your company logo on beverage tickets
Corporate Hole Sponsor: $350 which includes 1 foursome and your company sign on a Tee Box
Supporting Sponsor: $50 which includes company sign on Tee Box
We are also looking for donations for goodie bags and gift cards as grand prizes.
If you are interested in a sponsorship or would like to make a donation to the tournament, please contact Jeff Flieder at or 724-449-2779.
AN EVENING AT THE RACES! Saturday, April 18th!
LESS THAN 10 HORSES LEFT!
Please send in your reservations for our annual fundraiser, “An Evening at the Races” now! Horses are selling quickly so get yours now they are only $10 each and are first come, first serve! We are selling horses every Sunday and Tuesday during Hebrew school and Sunday school so don’t be left without a horse! Also sponsor a race for only $75 per race. If anyone would like to donate a product or service for the Silent Auction (ie., golf for 4, weekend getaways, hotel overnights, sports tickets, autographed sports items, restaurant gift certificates, jewelry or any other products or services please contact Amy Covell at or (724) 772-8117. We are in need of Silent Auction items!
Nominations to Temple Board Now Open
Notice of the Leadership Development/Election Committee slate of candidates for the May 1-15, 2009, annual elections to the Board of Directors and the procedures for filing nominating petitions during the April 1-15 nominations period was sent out to all Membership Units by postal mail on Monday. Any Membership Unit that hasn’t received this notice by the end of this week should contact the committee chairman, Bill Lowenberger ( or 412-367-2974), preferably by e-mail, for another copy of the nominations notice.
SUPERHEROS NEEDED!
Have you ever wanted to be a Superhero? I am sure secretly everyone in their lifetime has had this dream. Now is your chance to make it reality. Every child needs a hero, but abused children need Superheroes. Why not have that Superhero be you?! All you need to do is participate in the Superhero 5K Run/Walk
April 18, 2009 North Park: Oregon Pavillion
Registration*:8am Start time:9am
Cost:$20 prior to event or$25 event day
Proceeds benefit Parental Stress Center
*Attached is the registration form, you can also register online at
https://www.active.com/event_detail.cfm?event_id=1693954
Participants are encouraged to come dressed as their favorite superhero but not required. There will be prizes for best costumes.
BUT WAIT, there’s more
10am Family activities including a DJ,Mr. Mcfeely, face painting and more
11am Awards and recognition
7pm After Party at The Town Tavern ($10 adults only)
Want to help, but can’t make it? Have no fear, Facebook is here! You can paste the link below and donate
I am one of the main organizers of this event and I appreciate your support
Erica Burg
GIFT SHOP
The Gift Shop is open during Sunday School and by appointment. Contact Elaine Cohen - 412-364-8484 or Andi Turkheimer 412-367-7864. We have many beautiful items for all aspects of Jewish life. There is no need to go to Squirrel Hill - visit us first!
UPCOMING EVENTS
Wednesday, April 1st Noon & 7:00PM The Perfect Seder with Rabbi Art –TOS
Friday, April 3rd 6:00PM Kindergarten/First Grade Dinner for All/ First Friday Family Dinner
Friday, April 3rd 7:00 First Friday Services
Saturday, April 4th 5:00 Tifani & Friends-Jewish Music Festival—Borders Northway Mall
Monday, April 6th 11:00AM PreSchool Matzoh Factory with Rabbi Art
Tuesday, April 7th 4:45PM-5:30PM Talent Show Auction
April 9th -15th PRE-SCHOOL CLOSED Passover Break
Saturday, April 18th NIGHT AT THE RACES! TOS Social Hall
Sunday, April 19th 11:30Am-1:00PM Talent Show Audition
Sunday, April 19th 7:00PM Yom HaShoah Observance Guest: Rabbi Danny Schiff
Friday, April 24th 6:15PM Tot Shabbat (4th Friday this month)
Sunday, April 26th 1:00PM-4:00PM Mah Jongg Social Hall
Wednesday, April 29th Preschool Field Trip-Beechwood Farms
Friday, May 1st 6:00PM First Friday Dinner
Friday, May 1st 7:00PM First Friday Services
Friday, May 1st Talent Show right after services
Friday, May 8th 11:30Am Pre-School Mother’s Tea
Tuesday, May 12th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about God?) TOS 201
Friday, May 15th 7:30PM Shabbat honoring Tifani Katof Guest Rabbi: Rabbi Mark Mahler
Tuesday, May 19th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about the After Life?) TOS 201
Friday May 15th 6:15 Tot Shabbat
Thursday, May 21st Last Day of Pre-School!
Tuesday, May 26th 7:00PM What Do Jews Believe (about being a ‘Good’ Jew?) TOS 201
SCHEDULE OF WORSHIP SERVICES FOR APRIL
Parashat Tzav
Friday, April 3 9 Nissan, 5769
6:00 pm Dinner-for-All
7:00 pm First Friday Kabbalat Shabbat
Rabbi Donsky & Tifani Katof
Saturday, April 4 10 Nissan, 5769
10:00 am Shabbat Morning Service
Rabbi Donsky & Tifani Katof
Saturday, April 25 – 1 lyar, 5769
10:00 am Shabbat Morning
Bar Mitzvah of Caleb Kramer
Rabbi Donsky
Happy April Birthdays
3 Sidney Weiss
5 Conall Bradshaw
Alex Greenblatt
10 Sara Shriber
12 Elise Lehman
Benjamin Stahl
Jacob Leavitt
13 Alison Harbaugh
15 Jackie Bradshaw
16 Emily Fujito
Jessica Levine
19 Cade Schneider
22 Katie Borzelleca
Maxwell Shafran
23 Erica Weinberg
24 Wyatt Geller
26 Brooke Sender
28 Emily Gibbs
Sara West
29 Rebecca Lebovitz
30 Kate Rosenzweig
Happy April Anniversary
11 Cathy and Tom Tyma
13 Patty and Matt Lifson
16 Meredith and Peter Silberman
22 Barb and Jerrold Shafran
24 Sara and David DeVos
30 Sandy and Arnie Begler
May Their Memories Be For A Blessing
April 3 / Nissan 9
Sylvia Handler Morris
Mother of Barbara Nussbaum
April 4 / Nissan 10
Eva J. Brodsky
Mother of Allan Brodsky
Sidney Uram
Father of Lisa Dickter
April 7 / Nissan 13
Robert Rosenthal
Brother of Judy Rosenthal
April 8 / Nissan 14
Alan Rosen
Father of Brian Rosen
April 9 / Nissan 15
Phillip Frank
Father of Elliot Frank
April 12 / Nissan 18
Milton Bazer
Beloved Companion of Elaine Cohen
Harry Greenberg
Father of Abe Greenberg
April 13 / Nissan 19
Louis Pankey
Father of Eileen Burke
April 14 / Nissan 20
Nathaniel Avigad
Father of Jeremy Avigad
Samuel Schlesinger
Father of Barbara Laine
Gebriel Welner
Father of Eve Hemy
April 17 / Nissan 23
Selma Herman
Mother of Paul Herman
April 19 / Nissan 25
Warren Silverzahn
Stepfather of Clifford Kress
April 21 / Nissan 27
Jack Cowan
Father of E. Dana Cowan
April 23 / Nissan 29
Esther Anolik
Mother of Steven Anolik
April 24 / Nissan 30
Harvey Gibbs
Father of Robert Gibbs
Rhoda Harriet Heims Sanders
Mother of Mark Heims Sanders
Ann Zulkosky
Mother of Susan Samuels
April 25 / lyar 1
Janet Sapinkopf
Mother of Robert Sapinkopf
April 28 / lyar 4
Arnold Turkheimer
Husband of Andrea Turkheimer
Everyone knows Rabbi Art plays a mean guitar. Those who attended this year’s Purim Play, Schmaltz...A Greased Purim were treated to a solo that would have made Chuck Berry smile. Check out the video below.
And did you know the entire night’s event is available on DVD? We are selling the DVDs, complete with high quality video editing on professionally-printed discs, for $18 each as a fundraiser to the temple. For more information, contact Ken Eisner or Mike Daninhirsch.
With the arrival of spring but a few days away (thank God) we quickly turn our communal attention to the Festival of Pesakh (Passover). In the coming weeks (Wednesday, April 8th is night of the 1st Seder) many of us will engage in our families’ varied rituals of preparation for this much beloved holiday. Of course, the essence of Pesakh is in its message of freedom and justice – that all peoples deserve to live a life filled with dignity and self-respect.
In keeping with this vital message, let me encourage all of our members to participate in the upcoming 12th Annual Interfaith Gathering that is being held this year at our congregation. On Sunday, March 29th from 3 – 5 PM peoples of many faith and religious communities will enter our sanctuary to celebrate and share and learn from one another. Our tradition considers the mitzvah of welcoming guests, “hakh’na’sat or’khim”, as a truly important sacred obligation (this mitzvah is included in a list special mitzvot that we recite each day from the Siddur); one that we should practice often in community.
Truth be told, too many of us haven’t taken advantage of this unique North Hills program when it has been held outside the temple, in churches throughout our community. Shortly after I arrived to serve as the rabbi of our community, 12 years ago, I had the privilege to participate in the very first Gathering that took at St. Paul’s on Ferguson Rd. And I have felt privileged and blessed every year to participate and I have usually offered the Jewish perspective on the theme of the program.
This year’s theme is “Working for Change” thus encouraging all of the presenters to focus upon their particular group’s approach to social and religious change. This is a very exciting topic and I’m sure that you will be engaged by the many presenters and learn something not only about the different religious groups but also something significant about yourself.
Recently, this past Monday night at our monthly Temple Board meeting, VP of Social Action, Chip Dougherty explained the important goals of this committee for the coming months, and he strongly encouraged the members of the Board to attend the Interfaith Gathering and I’m sure that many of them will attend.
So please mark your calendars to attend and if your middle school and teen students are interested in joining the “pick-up chorus” for this program, we will rehearse from 2 PM until 3 PM. Hope to see you on the 29th.
B’shalom,
Rabbi Art
SAVE THE DATES: TOS 201 – What do Jews Believe?
Last fall we offered three sessions of TOS 101 for new members, those interested in becoming Jewish and anyone else interested in learning about the customs and traditions of our congregation. This coming spring, we are offering three sessions about what Jews believe. Classes will be held on Tuesdays, May 12, 19, and 26. Lunch-n-Learn will take place at 12 noon (bring a bag lunch) and evening classes at 7 PM. Classes are free to members and prospective members.
Tuesday, May 12th – What do Jews Believe about God? Tuesday, May 19th – What do Jews Believe about the After Life? Tuesday, May 26th – What do Jews Believe about being a ‘Good’ Jew?
Come to one or all three and bring your questions. Handouts will be provided. Please RSVP to .
12th ANNUAL NORTH HILLS INTERFAITH GATHERING
“Celebrating Our Diversity: Working for Change”
This event will be March 29th at TOS 3:00-5:00PM. We invite representatives from many faiths to give presentations on their traditions including: Baha’is, Buddhists, Christians, Hindus, Jews (us!) Mormons, Muslims, Quakers, Unitarian Universalists, and Zoroastrians. It is a wonderful learning experience bringing together people of all ages who may choose to attend any three of the breakout sessions of 10-12 different religions. This is the second time it has been held at our Temple and is made possible by the addition of the newly created separate spaces for the number of religions involved. Clemmy Brodsky
“How to Lead the ‘Perfect’ Seder? No Joking!”
Wed. April 1st – 12 Noon – bring a Brown Bag Lunch if you want
Or Wed. April 1st – 7 PM
Please bring your favorite Haggadah and questions, of course.
Rabbi Art will facilitate a discussion about the key elements of the Seder and how to lead ‘perfect’ regardless of whether your Matzah Balls are fluffy or cannonballs!!!
JEWISH MUSIC FESTIVAL: “TIFANI KATOF and FRIENDS”
We received a grant from the UJF of Pittsburgh to have a Jewish Music Festival. Come to Borders in the Northway Mall on Saturday, April 4th @ 5:00PM for a celebration of Jewish music with Tifani and friends. Enjoy Passover songs and Jewish musical theatre! And check out a musical preview on our website right here!
BAR MITZVAH PROJECTS
Hi, my name is Jason Weis. Please help our community and support my Mitzvah project by donating foods to the Squirrel Hill Food Pantry. Please drop off any donations in the coat room by the Sanctuary by March 26, 2009. If you have any questions, please call me at 724 443 4696. A flier is attached that describes what they need.
Thank you,
Jason
I am having a Bake Sale next Sunday, March 22nd to raise money for my Bat Mitzvah project “Nothing But Nets”. Please come and buy a treat when you drop your child off for Sunday school.
Thanks
Hannah Fassler
WOS/HADASSAH Afternoon at the Movies!
Join the Woman of Ohav on April 5th at 4:00PM for the movie: Arranged! A flier is attached. RSVP to Kathy @ by April 1st!
RECYCLING CONTAINER
The new recycling container is in! It has the side openings and smaller tops so please continue to recycle your newspapers and paper at the Temple.
PRESCHOOL HAPPENINGS!
It is hard to believe that summer is around the corner, and we are gearing up for Preschool Summer Camp. We are open to children from age 2 thru 5. The first session runs from June 8th -19th. The second session runs from June 22nd- July 3rd. You may sign up for one or both sessions. Each day includes inside and outside play, crafts, stories, snack and “water day”!
If you would like more information, please contact Liz in the preschool office at or 412-369-0621. Registration Form attached to the eWeekly
SPREAD THE WORD; RECEIVE $100 DISCOUNT
Help us spread the word about our wonderful preschool to your friends and neighbors in the North Hills. Our Temple Ohav Shalom Preschool provides a warm and nurturing environment where a love for learning is established. With low teacher to student ratios, enrichment activities such as yoga, music and Hebrew language, and a creative and loving staff, there is no reason to go anywhere else!
All members who recruit a new family to the preschool will receive a $100 discount on next year’s membership dues.* Questions may be directed to Elana Kriess, VP Preschool () or Liz Sender, Preschool Director ().
*Members must be in good standing to receive discount; new family must enroll their child in the preschool.
BUY YOUR CHILDREN’S ARTWORK!
The Temple Ohav Shalom Art Sale for Lifelong Learning is Sunday, April 5th from 9:00AM to 12 Noon. All proceeds go to our school!
PITTSBURGH RACE FOR THE CURE
Join fellow TOS members and friends on Mother’s Day (May 10th) at the Pittsburgh Race for the Cure! It is a beautiful day of celebration and remembrance for those touched by breast cancer. Your participation in the 2009 Race and the Dick’s Sporting Goods Pledge Program will help provide the necessary funding for education, screening and treatment programs to fight breast cancer in our region. Join us as we strive to end breast cancer forever. RUNNERS and WALKERS are welcome! Bring your CHILDREN… there is a 1 mile fun run/walk that you can do with your kids!
To register, or to get more information, go to http://www.pittsburghraceforthecure.org. Click on “Join an existing team” to find the Temple Ohav Shalom team. Elana Kriess (724-452-7043)
DO YOUR CHILDREN LIKE TO SING?
The 12th Annual North Hills Interfaith Gathering is having a combined chorus with the youth of Temple Ohav Shalom and other North Hills youth of diverse faiths. There is a one rehearsal immediately prior to the gathering on Sunday March 29th @ 2:00PM at Temple Ohav Shalom.
SAVE THE DATE – SAVE THE DATE – SAVE THE DATE – SAVE THE DATE
A Thank You Celebration for Our Cantorial Intern: Tifani Katof
Friday, May 15th at 7:30 PM, we will join together and celebrate our Cantorial Intern, Tifani Katof. Our special guest on evening to help with the celebration will be Rabbi Mark Mahler, from Temple Emanuel of the South Hills. Rabbi Mahler was Tifani’s rabbi growing up in Upper St. Clair. Besides being a talented orator, Rabbi Mahler is an accomplished guitarist. So save this date on your calendar for what will surely be a joyous Kabbalat Shabbat experience.
AN EVENING AT THE RACES!
Invitations went out and we’ve started selling horses for our fundraiser, “An Evening at the Races” on Tuesday’s and Sunday’s. Don’t be left out horses are only $10.00 each and are first come, first serve! Also sponsor a race for only $75 per race. If anyone would like to donate a product or service for the Silent Auction (i.e., golf for 4, weekend getaways, hotel overnights, sports tickets, autographed sports items, restaurant gift certificates, jewelry or any other products or services please contact Amy Covell at or (724) 772-8117. We are in need of Silent Auction items!
GIFT SHOP
The Gift Shop is open during Sunday School and by appointment. Contact Elaine Cohen - 412-364-8484 or Andi Turkheimer 412-367-7864. We have many beautiful items for all aspects of Jewish life. There is no need to go to Squirrel Hill - visit us first!
UPCOMING EVENTS
Friday, March 20th 6:15 PM Tot Shabbat
Sunday, March 29th 3:00PM-5:00PM 12th Annual Interfaith Gathering - Hosted at TOS-NEW DATE
Tuesday, March 31st 5:30 Pm B’nai Mitzvah Workshop—PARENT’S ONLY!
Saturday, April 4th 9:30 AM B’Nai Mitzvah Workshop
Saturday, April 18th NIGHT AT THE RACES! TOS Social Hall
Friday, April 24th 6:15PM Tot Shabbat (4th Friday this month)
Saturday, April 25th 9:00 AM Special Needs Shabbat Morning Experience (30 minutes)
Friday, May 15th 7:30PM Shabbat honoring Tifani Katof Guest Rabbi: Rabbi Mark Mahler
Friday May 15th 6:15 Tot Shabbat
SCHEDULE OF WORSHIP SERVICES FOR MARCH
Parashat Vayakhel-Pekudei
Friday, March 20 – 24 Adar, 5769
6:15 pm Tot Shabbat
7:30 pm Kabbalat Shabbat
Rabbi Donsky & Tifani Katof, Cantorial Intern
Saturday, March 21 – 25 Adar, 5769
10:00 am Shabbat Morning Service
Bar Mitzvah of Benjamin Gibbs
Rabbi Donsky & Tifani Katof
Parashat Vayikra
Friday, March 27 – 2 Nissan, 5769
7:30 pm Kabbalat Shabbat
Rabbi Donsky & Bobbie Harley
Saturday, March 28 – 3 Nissan, 5769
10:00 am Shabbat Morning Service
Bar Mitzvah of Brett Rodgers
Rabbi Donsky & Bill Lowenberger
